holy fucking shit. I don’t understand how people do that same shit over and over and over and never learn from it the first,second,third, or fourth time. Yea people change….when they are ready and serious about changing. and even then it takes time and it take maturity. it is hard to break patterns in a person especially patterns that they have learned to survive. like manipulating people who are mentally weaker than they are. For example….little boy has a bad childhood. little boy is beaten….little boy is verbally abused…little boy grows up with the ability to tell people what they want to hear so that they are “nice” to him. little boy means the things that he says at the time that he says them but in the long run….they are just words….that mean nothing…..